Body language is a silent orchestra ... you may not consciously perceive that your date appears closed-off, but your unconscious mind may pick up on the crossed arms or averted gaze.

2. Use Open Gestures Closed body language, such as crossing arms or legs, can create a barrier between you and your partner, potentially leading to feelings of defensiveness. In contrast ...

David Allen’s 'Decoding Body Language' is an essential guide to understanding the unspoken cues that shape every interaction.