David Allen’s 'Decoding Body Language' is an essential guide to understanding the unspoken cues that shape every interaction.

Body language is a silent orchestra ... you may not consciously perceive that your date appears closed-off, but your unconscious mind may pick up on the crossed arms or averted gaze.

2. Use Open Gestures Closed body language, such as crossing arms or legs, can create a barrier between you and your partner, potentially leading to feelings of defensiveness. In contrast ...