using the traditional anniversary gifts by year as a guideline is a wonderful place to start,” says Jodi R. R. Smith, a wedding etiquette coach and the president of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting.

"This week was our 45th month anniversary ," she captioned a series of images, before asking fans: "What should we do for our wedding anniversary on 11/11 this year?? #Love." In the carousel ...